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Communication - How Tech is Ruining Our Talk Time!

Steven Killfoil Season 3 Episode 43

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What if the biggest barrier to connection is sitting in your pocket right now? We take a candid, funny, and honest look at how screens reshaped our conversations, why empathy lags when tone and timing vanish, and how to retrain the muscle of real talk without ditching technology entirely. From the awkward “call me back with a text” moment to the dinner table quartet of phones, we unpack why online incentives reward shouting instead of listening and how that spills into everyday life.

We share practical, human fixes that work in the real world. Small rules—phones face down during meals, one-tab browsing on calls, and 10-minute no-screen walks—help rebuild attention. We explain why Toastmasters is our favorite training ground: a supportive space to practice public speaking, sharpen listening, give constructive feedback, and regain confidence. You learn to organize your thoughts, read the room, and land your message without hiding behind a screen. Along the way, we use humor to defuse defensiveness and highlight the irony of modern habits, from mismatched “that’s awesome” responses to the global comment section that never sleeps.

Expect a blend of relatable stories, actionable communication tips, and a gentle push to try a no-phone conversation this week. We also spotlight Santa Stephen’s community magic for the holidays, because joy and presence go hand in hand with better communication. If you’ve ever said “I’m just not a good speaker,” consider this your sign to practice, not post. Subscribe, share with a friend—verbally if you can—and tell us how your first no-scroll chat goes. Your next great connection might be one honest conversation away.

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